Is this your first Valentine’s Day as a new couple? Check out these 14 non-cheesy Valentine’s Day ideas for new couples to break the ice and do something casual yet cute on your first February 14th together!
Valentine’s Day can put a ton of pressure on a new relationship. It can low-key get kind of awkward deciding what to do on the day when you are still getting to know one another.
Are you doing too much? Or not enough?
But don’t worry, it always gets easier with time as you start to learn more about one another. In the meantime take a deep breath and remember that the beauty of a new relationship lies in the journey of discovering each other.
Embrace the uncertainty of February 14th, viewing it as an opportunity to create cherished memories. Instead of fixating on grand gestures, focus on authenticity and thoughtfulness.
As the initial uncertainty of a new relationship gives way to shared laughter and genuine connection, you’ll find that navigating Valentine’s Day becomes easier as the years go on.
So, in the meantime let the butterflies flutter, enjoy the process, and relish the joy that comes with uncovering the unique magic of your new connection. With that here are the 14 best, unique, and non-cheesy Valentine’s Day ideas for new couples!
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Share Your Favorite Movie's
Get to know each other a little better by spending a low key Valentine’s Day in bed watching each of your favorite movies. It’s cozy, it’s romantic and you both get to share a something that brings both of you joy! Now order in some takeout and you have yourselve’s the perfect date night!
Play A Drinking Game
If you want to bring some extra fun into your night play a drinking game! There are plenty of variations to choose from. Some good Valentine’s Day drinking game ideas for new couples are truth or drink, never have I ever, two truths one lie or ‘flip, sip, or strip’! You can also keep it simple with playing a movie drinking game, there’s plenty of great ideas on google for a lot of popular movies!
Play Drive Through Roulette
Drive through roulette is simple. Put a bunch of restaurants in a cup, next pull 3 random ones. Get an appetizer at the first restaurant, a main dish at the second, and dessert at the third! It’s a fun way to add a little spin on a casual date night.
Keep It Casual With A Coffee Date
If you are still just starting to get to know, keep things casual with a simple coffee date. Grab a warm cup of Joe and take a scenic walk together enjoying the sights and chatting. It’s cute, it’s casual and most importantly it’s romantic!
Watch A Netflix Standup Show
Indulge in laughter from the comfort of your couch by watching a stand-up show on Netflix together. It’s like having your favorite comedian right in the comfort of your living room, serving up jokes that hit just right. Plus sharing laughs is a great bonding experience especially when you are a new couple.
Cook For Each Other
If you are both into cooking, spend the evening cooking up your favorite dishes that you can both share and enjoy. Plus it’s an easy way to figure out who’s the better chef in the relationship right off the bat 😉
Go On A Bar Crawl
In the mood for a night out? Go on a local bar crawl! Spend your Valentine’s Day trying new drinks and restaurants. Plus by trying out a variety of bars, you guys may figure out your new goto spot as a couple!
Play A Spicy Game 
Get things hot and wild with a fun couples game. Try strip poker, or pick up a spicy card game from Target or Amazon. But if you guys are up for something adventurous, get lucky with a roll of the dice!
Share Your Passions
A great Valentine’s Day idea for new couples is to explore each other’s passions. Are you or your partner into pickle ball, hiking or a certain restaurant? Whatever your passions are, why not spend the day sharing them with one another. It’s bound to bring you closer than ever!
Take A Personality Quiz
Learn a little more about one another by taking turns taking a personality quiz! It’s a fun way to learn something new about both yourself and your new boo. Another fun thing to do is to dive into how your personalities work together by taking a compatibility quiz.
Create A Bucket List
Spend Valentine’s Day creating the most fun and elaborate couples bucket list! Get creative and put down everything you both want to accomplish, the places you want to visit, and the concerts you want to see! Get wild, get creative, and get active working on completing it together as a couple!
Share Your Cultural Differences Or Traditions
If you come from different cultures, countries or just have unique and different traditions, spend time getting to know each other even better by sharing your cultural differences. Share stories, foods, memories and photos with one another. It’s a wonderful and romantic way to spend the day and get to know each other a little bit better.
Go On A Progressive Dinner
A progressive dinner is so much fun and a great way to try different restaurants all in one night! Start by going to a restaurant and ordering an appetizer and drinks, then move on to a different restaurant for the main course, and yet another for dessert! It’s cute, it’s unique and it will get you guys trying out a variety of foods! It’s one of my favorite Valentine’s Day ideas for new couples to try together!
Figure Out Your Love Languages
Figuring out both of your love languages is the perfect Valentines Day activity, and even better for new couples! Knowing your own and your partners love language will go super far into creating a nurturing and healthy relationship. Try out this free online quiz to figure out yours!
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