Are you looking to spice up your valentines day date night? Leave the Netflix for a different night and try out one of these fun Valentine’s day activities for adults instead!
Valentine’s Day is coming up, which means it’s time to plan date night with your significant other!
Here are the best ideas for Valentine’s Day dates which don’t just involve sitting on the couch watching a Netflix movie like any regular day!
Some of these ideas are wholesome and fun, while others are a bit more risqué! But no matter what you are in the mood for, here’s the lowdown on some chill and downright enjoyable Valentine’s Day activities for adults!
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20 Fun Valentine’s Day Ideas for Adults
1. Play a game of rock paper scisors, each round winner picks appetizer, main, dessert and drinks.
This is a fun way to spice up a mundane trip to the grocery store! Play 4 rounds of rock paper scissors. The winner of each round gets to pick an appy, a main, a dessert, or a drink for you both to enjoy!
2. Create a charcuterie board with each others faves
Spice up a wine and cheese night by creating a charcuterie with both of your favorites! Add some chips, crackers, pickles, candy and of course cheese! Make it extra romantic by picking out each other’s favorite snacks. Now, crack open a bottle of wine and you have yourself a fancy date night!
3. Spoil each other with a massage
Get out the lotions, oils and mood lighting. And set a timer taking turns giving each other a proper and professional massage. Not only is it the perfect way to make you both feel appreciated, it’s also hot!
4. Take the carnal calibration quiz together
I first heard about the carnal calibration quiz on TikTok, and let me tell you, some of the questions had me shook! Try this out with your partner if you want to get wild in the bedroom. This quiz lets you both take it separately and then shows you both of your results so you can see what you are each willing to try. It’s also a great way to open up discussions about what you are both into between the sheets 😉
5. Play a card game to get to know each other deeper
What can be more romantic than getting to know each other even better than you already do! Play a juicy card game filled with hard hitting questions and get deep with each other. There are tons of variations online, but this one has some good juicy Q’s!
6. Cook an elaborate meal
Who wants take out when you can spend quality time together cooking a fancy meal? Splurge on some good quality ingredients and prepare a nice meal together. If you both enjoy cooking, this is one of the most fun Valentine’s day activities for adults!
7. Challenge each other to making DIY gifts only
Get create by making home made DIY gifts for one another. Not only is it more sentimental, it’s also easy on the wallet!
8. Roll some spicy dice 🌶
Feeling lucky? Roll the dice to decide how freaky you’ll get this Valentine’s Day! These dice are so much fun and are the perfect way to spice things up for a special occasion. With these you get 36 unique combinations you can try out. Add some toys and the possibilities are now infinite 😉
9. Play a video game together
Video games are such a fun way to spend time with your loved one. You can play multiplayer games, or take turns playing through a game. My personal go to’s are Mario party, and Until Dawn which is a spooky choose your own adventure game. It’s so much fun and will have you both on the edge of your seats all night! (Great for Valentine’s day because it’s so scary, it will have you both cuddling each other close all night long 
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10. Go to a comedy show
If you are looking for a fun activity to do on Valentine’s Day, why not attend a comedy show? It’s a light-hearted and unique way to have fun. If you aren’t up for going out, put on a comedy Netflix special, there are tons to choose from!
11. Go on a wine bar crawl
Think of this like a sophisticated scavenger hunt for adults. Wine tasting is a fun and romantic Valentine’s Day activity for adults, and best of all you get to be tipsy!
12. Plan a cute staycation at a unique Airbnb
These days Airbnb offers so many unique accommodations. Plan a romantic getaway in a fancy yurt, a cozy treehouse, or even in a cave! There are plenty of unique places to choose from so pick something close by and spend a night being adventurous.
13. Have a progressive dinner at different restaurants.
If you don’t know what a progressive dinner is, it’s basically where you walk around to different restaurants having appetizers at one, then the main course, dessert, and drinks at other restaurants. It’s especially a fun thing to do if you are visiting a new town because it allows you to sample a bunch of different restaurants in one night. It’s a cool way to spice up a dinner date!
14. Create a risqué calendar
Get dressed up… or don’t . And create a fun and risqué calendar for you both to enjoy and look back on. It’s a fun way to do something both of you can appreciate, while also being fun and flirty! The perfect Valentine’s Day activity you both can enjoy every month of the year!
15. Get fancy for a theater night
When was the last time you really went all out and dressed up fancy? Spend time getting dressed up for each other and attend a theater night to watch a play. Dressing up can be a fun activity and looking good for your partner is super important for a lasting and happy relationship.
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16. Take a trip down memory lane
Recreate one of your first dates together and reminisce on your love story. Talk about your favorite memories, your feelings when you first met, and when you knew you were in love. It’s the perfect way to celebrate the day of love.
17. Play a game of strip poker
Raise the stakes with a little game of poker! Loser takes off an article of clothing. I personally don’t know how to play poker, but let me tell you, the Uno games in my house take a freaky turn sometimes 😉
18. Build a puzzle... or a lego set
Who says a quiet night in can’t be fun? Solving a puzzle together while watching a romantic movie is a date out of my dreams. If puzzles aren’t your thing, try a Lego set. It’s like a more fun, 3D puzzle!
19. Make it a group date
If you already spend all of your time with your partner alone, then why not spend Valentine’s day on a group date. Having another couple there will mix things up and can bring even more spark into your relationship!
20. Create a vision board
Couples who manifest together, stay together! Spend the evening planning out your future. Talk about your goals, dreams and wildest ideas, nothing’s off limits! Planning for your future is a fantastic way to make sure you are both on the same page while also being exciting and sweet. It’s the best way to spend a cozy night in with your love.
